Still nothing. I had hope but it quickly faded away. A week later...nothing. I mean I didn't expect to meet someone and immediate have a deep, committed relationship but a second date would have been nice. Or, hell, at the very least a "thanks but no thanks". This is just fucking depressing and I'll tell you why:

eHarmony by the numbers (so far) -
Matches: 405 (how many are paid or active members I have no clue)
Profile views: 78
Communication with matches: 14 people, three to the email stage; the rest just stop contact
Dates: 1

Anyone else see a problem with this? This is an expensive service and it seems like I'm paying for nothing. If I had it to do over again, I probably wouldn't join.